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Fear is a normal and necessary feeling in evolutionary development. Its function is to provide security, since it warns us of the presence of a danger and allows us to evaluate one's ability to face threats and to be able to protect oneself against possible risks.
Fear is a universal emotion present in all cultures that appears from 6 months and that is evolving. That is, as the child goes through the different stages of development, the fears gradually change or disappear as the child experiences security in himself and in the environment. They also manifest in the adolescent stage. We tell you which are the most common fears in adolescence.
Adolescence is considered a stage of transition from child status to adult status. In this way, it can be said that the fears that are had in adolescence can come from several fronts:
- Those who are dragged from the previous stage (preadolescence). For the young adolescent, everything related to not being accepted by others (which gains strength in this period) and is afraid of school failure is still important.
- Adult fears. In the ages that comprise adolescence, young people begin to experiment with new fears that can be labeled as adult fears. These are, for example: love, the future to come, being alone, etc.
Adolescence, therefore, is not considered an easy stage. It is a period of great physical and psychological changes that do not allow reaching the emotional balance necessary to face all those fears.
In this way, the lack of emotional stability in adolescents is what differentiates them from an adult when facing fears.
There are many types of fear that can affect the adolescent to a greater or lesser extent. These are the most common:
1. Fear of not being accepted
Adolescence is characterized by being a stage in which the young man seeks answers that help him discover himself. In other words, he is in search of an identity that differentiates him from his parents and helps him interact with his peers.
The young person experiences excessive concern about being included in this type of group made up of individuals of their age. However, failure to do so will cause fear and fear. Something very common in this period.
2. Fear of love
Adolescence is the stage when love usually appears. A mixture of emotions difficult to define and more so when in this period young people experience great emotional imbalances. If to this we add the continuous search for identity, insecurity and inexperience characteristic of this stage, we find that young people are very vulnerable to this complex emotion and, therefore, we are facing one of the most common fears of this period of development .
3. Fear of what is to come
The goal that the adolescent seeks is integration into society. As he succeeds, he realizes that he has to “meet” some expectations that the adults in his environment have placed on him in order to achieve goals in the future. The insecurities that characterize this stage make the young man wonder if he can achieve it. For this reason, the fear of what will come in the future and if he will be able to face it fulfilling the expectations instill fear in him.
We give you all These tips to help your teenager to overcome your fears:
- Listen to what they have to say. It is essential to allow young people to express their feelings and emotions without fear so that they feel the support of the adults in their environment in the face of any fear and insecurity.
- Stand by him. Adolescence is a stage in which young people lack the necessary skills to deal with situations that cause fear and anxiety. Therefore, it will be necessary for adults to accompany them to be their support.
- Dialogue At this stage that concerns us young people find it difficult to talk about their feelings and emotions, so it will be necessary to create a positive climate to deal with the fears they suffer naturally.
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